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At a glance (Player dating rules)
|Sign of the Zodiac||Taurus Check compatibility »||Aquarius, Cancer, Taurus, Virgo|
|Personality||Social||Social, Private, Average, Very Social|
What I'm looking for (Player dating rules)
- Male or Female, for friendship
- Male, for a relationship or sex
Despite her dream house, luxury car, and appetite for life’s best—like fine dining and hot men—she seems to have her own special talent for attracting players. Confidence scares and intimidates players because they don’t know how to handle a woman who can see through their BS.
With the overconfident women, the ones who knew they could get any man they wanted and let everyone else in the room know it too, he’d play a little hard-to-get, making them believe he’d succumbed to their charms when in fact he’d had set his sights on them from the first moment he’d laid eyes on them. Hate to break it to you, ladies, but the Emperor’s got new clothes. Stop thinking you’re special and that he’ll be different with you. OK, maybe to your mother and your nana, but not to him. Yes, curiosity killed the cat–and that cat was dead as a doornail. He’ll only listen long enough to unlock the mystery to getting inside your pants. With the under-confident women (the wallflowers), he only need to make her feel “special,” you know, pretty. There’s no way she can resist his seductive smile and rock-hard body. A good friend of mine—a reformed player—once told me that in his hound dog days, he could walk into a room of women, sniff out his prey, and easily schedule two hook-ups before the night’s end. He targeted the extremes—the under-confident and overconfident. But just as Rissey swears off sex and vows to dump her emotional baggage, she meets house-hunting client Dwayne Gibson. We wanted to know if we could be The One to rope that bull, drag him mercilessly into a relationship, and then tag him and bag him for the rest of his sorry days. He wanted to do the old stop, flop, and roll—as in roll out of bed, down the street, and out of our lives. Will Dwayne turn out to be the biggest bum of them all? We wanted to know if he was as good in bed as the reputation that long preceded him suggested. Not only did he know it, he was looking for us, and he wanted us not for a relationship, mind you.Even with all we know about relationships these days, there seems to be a lot of confusion when it comes to the “chase” and how that differs from “playing games.” There also seems to be dissent regarding whether or not this chase is necessary or obsolete and how to do it right.
Well, confusion be gone – it’s time to end the debate once and for all.
Yes, the chase is important, no, it’s not the same as playing games, and there is one basic principle you need to know to understand how it’s done.
native and an alumnus of the University of the District of Columbia and University of Maryland where she earned a B.
No matter how sincere they make you believe they are, let them move on in order to make room for the man who is truly worthy of the fabulous woman you are!
There was Lamar, the hazel-eyed Adonis who sowed more wild oats than Quaker. But the longer you stand your ground, the sooner you’ll see their true colors because they’ll get sick of how much work it takes to maintain your interest.
She works as an analyst for a major government contracting firm. He’s the misogynistic, arrogant jerk you hate more than taxes, but, secretly, you’d bed him faster than your granny could yell “Bingo! Let’s face it: We’ve all wanted him at one time or another. Why do all of her ex-lovers belong in the Losers Hall of Fame? They’ll either run for cover or step up to a game worthy of you.