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At a glance (Dating advice calling too much)
|Sign of the Zodiac||Taurus Check compatibility »||Aquarius, Cancer, Taurus, Virgo|
|Personality||Social||Social, Private, Average, Very Social|
What I'm looking for (Dating advice calling too much)
- Male or Female, for friendship
- Male, for a relationship or sex
Your job is to create the desire within him to meet you by sharing your best self.Be enjoyable – someone the guy would have fun spending time with. So, be realistic – there is only so much you can learn in a first phone call.
You need to discover if you connect, have chemistry and the most important hurdle – if he asks you out.Many of my dating coaching clients have questions about what to ask during the first phone call. Understandably, most busy midlife women say they don’t have time to waste on the wrong men.What I have found over the past 10 years as a dating coach, and from my own journey to find my own husband, this can be trickier than you think.If you mess up the phone call, you could end up with few first dates and keep yourself single.Here are five tips to help you have a great first phone call and hopefully get a first date too! Make a good impression – the first phone call is a two way street Many women forget the first phone call is a two way street.My two matchmaker friends, Nicole of Compatibles and John of Tri-State Dating Service explain that phone interviews squash more potential matches than anything else.
They both want me to tell you not to “phone date” which keeps too many people from ever meeting.3.
Keep your questions light – this is a conversation, not an inquisition Men do not like to be “grilled”. ) If you handle the first phone call like an interview and fire a series of tough personal questions at a man, he will get turned off. ” will only put him on the spot and make him uncomfortable. Questions about vacations, favorite foods, movies, music and hobbies are all excellent ways to discover a man’s passion and get him talking.
It’s not just about what YOU want to know about him.
While you have your detective work in mind, remember you also have to make a good first impression.
The man you are speaking to is trying to decide if he’d like to date you.
That means you have to be friendly, warm AND pleasant.